2023年，我们诊所的多位心理咨询师会和我一起，打造一个高质量的英文YouTube频道： “Mind Body Garden Psychology”。内容会涵盖睡眠健康，性心理健康，压力管理，情绪调节，拖延症应对，职场，婚姻，感情，家庭，育儿，等方方面面，欢迎订阅！
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地址: Li Ka Shing Center, 291 Campus Drive, Palo Alto, CA 94305
教室号：LK101/102
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最近的停车场：Roth Way Garage, 355 Roth Way, Palo Alto, CA 94304
第一次家长课的部分总结：
今天的斯坦福讲座中，几位心理医生总结了几个孩子大脑发育的特点，很多家长们可能都不太了解，这里想总结扩展一下几个要点。
1）大脑发育持续到25岁：孩子的大脑在25岁之前都还没有发育完全。孩子的成熟和独立，需要一些时间，耐心，和科学的引导。青少年在成长过程中需要家长的理解和支持，特别是在决策和情绪管理方面。
2）情绪大脑早于理性大脑发育：孩子们的情绪大脑区域（如杏仁核）发育早于理性大脑区域（如前额叶皮层）。也就是说，孩子们情绪充沛的同时，无法理性的评估后果。所以我们经常看到青少年和年轻人们“一时冲动”，做出匪夷所思的举动。
3）性别差异影响社交技能：男孩子社交技能的发展，整体上会比女孩子们会晚一些。很多家长们可能都有体会，孩子可能很聪明，但是沟通起来真费劲儿。
4）青春期对母亲声音反应减弱：最近斯坦福团队的研究发现，孩子进入青春期后，对妈妈声音的反应，会远远低于幼龄小孩子。很多时候，我们工作中见到一些家长们很自责，担心是不是自己做错了什么，说错了什么，让孩子反应那么激烈，其实除了家庭关系模式和沟通问题，孩子的大脑特点也扮演了一个重要的角色。 这表明在青春期，孩子们开始寻求更多的独立性和同伴的认可。
5）面子和同伴影响：青少年极度重视在同伴中的形象和地位，有时甚至超过自身的安全或疼痛。爱面子这种心理特点，可能促使他们接受危险的挑战以获得认可。所以如果同伴们一起哄，一刺激，孩子可能就会做出一些极危险的行为，来证明自己很棒很勇敢。这种倍儿有面子的感觉，能给到孩子们心理上极大的满足。同样的，如果这个时候被同伴孤立，被周围人（包括家长）言语打压，孩子的心里就很容易失衡，越来越不自信。
很荣幸请到专攻儿童喂养障碍和儿童发展障碍（自闭症/多动症等）的学妹，Daisy，来和我们聊一聊：
-儿童的厌食挑食到底是怎么回事？
-儿童喂养障碍是什么？
-家长们可以用哪些具体的实操方法来应对这些情况？
-等等
讲座时间：美国加州时间周四晚上8点，10月12号；或者北京时间周五上午11点，10月13号。
讲座地点：zoom： 850 5520 6482
请带着问题来参与和提问。期待见到大家！
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11/7 加州时间 周一 5pm
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11/15 加州时间 周二 6pm
11/18 加州时间 周五 6pm
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Stephanie M. Caballero, Esq. | Founder and Infertility Warrior
The journey was long, hard, and lonely. While her friends were having baby showers and celebrating their children’s birthdays, Stephanie was sticking herself with needles and subjecting herself to countless ultrasounds, medical procedures, surgeries and doctor’s appointments in hopes that she might one day become a parent.
It took eight years for that hope to turn into reality, with Stephanie undergoing more than 10 artificial insemination procedures in the first two years. The next six years saw Stephanie enduring 13 IVF procedures. Every so often, she would get pregnant and be hopeful that this time it would work. But, it never did. Stephanie had three miscarriages before she finally realized her dream when her children were born via surrogate. She had her children. The wait had been worth it.
As the founder and principal of The Surrogacy Law Center, PLC, Stephanie has represented thousands of clients from all over the world, including intended parents, surrogates and egg, sperm and embryo donors. Stephanie’s expertise in family formation and reproductive law has made her a sought-after expert who has appeared on various television and radio programs as well as in print media including The Today Show, ABC News, HuffPost Live, The Daily Beast, The Bakersfield Californian, Washington Examiner, the Creating a Family radio program, NPR, Fox News, The Los Angeles Times, The Union Tribune and the L.A. Daily Journal (and again on March 23rd, 2015). In 2017 Stephanie established The Estate Planning & Legacy Law Center, PLC, a full-service estate planning law firm, further highlighting her commitment to serving families and ensuring their peace of mind.
Stephanie is a Fellow of the Academy of Adoption & Assisted Reproduction Attorneys, serving on its Ethics Code Review Committee, and is a member of the American Society of Reproductive Medicine, serving on the Executive Board of its Legal Professional Group. She is also a member of the American Bar Association.
Sammantha is a repeat surrogate mother completing her first journey in 2018 and her second journey in 2020 with Extraordinary Conceptions. Sammantha is married and a mother to two children. In her free time, Sammantha enjoys spending time with her family and friends, cooking, going to Disneyland, and crafting.
小组配备了英文和粤语翻译，欢迎大家选择自己喜欢的主题参加。
我们还制作了几个相关的公益视频供大家参考：
我们诊所之后会开展一系列公益心理讲座。欢迎转发给有需要的家庭。
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